I turned 70 last November…..and we’re moving. Change is in the air. I feel it in October every year. Deep Fall colors and the vitality in the crispness. We will be out of our home of 23 years and it’s time to coalesce and discard.
I have boxes full of photocopied law review articles. I haven’t counted them, but I’d guess they total more than 100. They cover topics like mediation, ethics, lawyers’ well being, legal history and similar articles. I’m going to get it all recycled. I have no further need for them…yet, to cut them loose feels significant to me. Those topics have been so important to me over the years. I wrote about lawyers’ well-being for years in a column in the King County Bar Journal. I developed and taught the first few years of a class on starting and maintaining your own law practice at U.W. Law School. Those articles partly informed those endeavors, as well as the book I wrote, Divorce or Not: A Guide. I guess I have held onto all those (often wonderfully written) pieces because I might write a book or article about some of those topics in the future.
But hey! Did I say I turned 70 last November? It has been a trip to move into this decade. One piece of it is that I’m starting to come to terms with the reality that there are some things I’ll never do in this life. I don’t have the interest in it that I once did. Plus, I envy the energy possessed by youth. People have asked if I’m “retiring” and I’m bemused by that notion. If you are lucky enough to love what you do that generates income for you, then why stop doing it? Maybe do it less but continue the privilege of sharing part of people’s journey with them.
One of my oldest, closest friends (I met him in the 10th grade) told me that his therapist told him once, “I hold your story.” I love that.
So….if anybody wants 100 photocopied articles on mediation, ethics, lawyers’ well being, legal history and the like, shoot me an email by September 30
and they’re yours.